If this were me and I was treated this poorly by my future in laws I would have been gone already and there wouldnt be a wedding to worry about. They think it's ok to abuse and bully others. Its about living or dying. And you are most definitely NTA. Your family sucks. It doesn't appear in any feeds, and anyone with a direct link to it will see a message like this one. Depending on how bad the asthma is it could be way beyond cruel. You did not ruin your relationship with your family. Imagine the boundaries theyll cross when you have children! And I'd take it all the way to the wedding unless there's a huge apology to your man and they back off for real. I love this! What they did is unacceptable. Buy wedding insurance first, add the cancellation policy, then cancel so lost deposits are covered by insurance wedsafe.com (am a wedding planner). Plugs are only good for punctures more then an inch or two away from the sides. NTA. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. why would you even want to remain family with a bunch of hazing, assaulting assholes? It doesn't matter. They fucked up. Yeah they sound toxic as hell. Tow it to a tire shop. If I was Tim I'd never see them again, and while I wouldn't or couldn't stop you from being in contact with them, I couldn't understand why you would want to. Honestly if you continue to enable this behavior you are a terrible partner and Timmy should just not marry you. Because frankly, If I was your fianc, stealing the inhaler would have been my breaking point and I would have called off the wedding completely. The poor stepdad.. Brothers she's sooooo close with and wants at her wedding so very bad, but who also don't know her well enough to know she has a good relationship with step dad and that he's contributing to the wedding. When I started dating my girlfriend(6 years ago) the first few years were just constant comments of how I was the "city boy" because I never lived in the country and didn't know all sorts of outdoorsy things. I've been there. Its toxic. I moved out and left them to take care of my younger brothers by themselves and went full no contact for years. Hiding lifesaving medicine? "Garage" or "Auto Shop" work well too, but can be a bit ambiguous depending on context, as garage also means where you park your car in North America, whether it's at your house or the larger undergroud lots. Will he go to the hospital like a pussy?". Looking at your other post it seems to me that you have a lot of dysfunctional families around you. Dont re-invite them, and I would heavily consider going No Contact or Extremely Low Contact with these assholes. I'm so sorry your family did this. Keep asking why. A lot of the things you describe arent pranks at all. YNTA. These aren't pranks. Thats near abuse. The way he calls you failure is super not okay You do what is right for you and go ahead and uninivite him. These men are absolute Neanderthals! Slashing tires would definitely cost someone hundreds of dollars to replace. NTA. Everyone thinks asthma is no serious thing. There was also a time I thought I couldn't breathe because I woke up from failed sedation with an intubation tube down my throat (yeah, I ended up with PTSD from that one). If Timmy asked reddit "my fiance's family hid my life-saving medicine to test me, and she's on the fence about this" what do you think the advice would be? Your male family members seem to think petty crime is pranking. If they see that as a joke then their heads arent screwed on correctly. I would presume that they had a similar experience with him.". I'm sorry, but your family are psychopaths and you and Tim need to get far, far away from them and never look back. I feel like it is finally time to cut my dad off but idk AITA? Good on you OP for leaving this toxic FOG and stand your ground. I know at least two adult males who go by Timmy lmao. And their results will be used to judge them for the rest of their lives. Yup, this is essentially hazing someone who doesn't even want to be in their stupid frat. AITA for uninviting my cousin, brother, uncle and dad to my wedding over a prank? Or your future hubby might. Check out our upcoming Reddit Talk With John Hodgman on January 18th @ 7pm EST. Do you really need these people and their defenders in your life? He should get them all charged. Toxic masculinity at it's finest. I wouldve called it quits way before the inhaler incident. But not to everyone. I sent Dean and Kevin invitations but once they found out that our stepdad was going to be there, they said they might not come. Absolutely, Im shocked that they didnt. My junior and senior years of high school they had my two younger half-brothers and my stepdad forced me to drop out of all extracurriculars so I could take care of them after school which severely hurt my chances of scholarships. I'd get the police involved for the slashed tires alone, and talk to a lawyer about the inhaler. I hadnt seen a doctor in a decade due to lack of health care and this guy straight up told me he hasnt either even after a heart attack. NTA, and just go NC with the whole lot - even your mom, because she clearly supports this shit. A parent's approval means the world to a person who is about to marry the love of their life. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: i am thinking about uninviting my sister from my mothers birthday dinner because she abruptly left me to go to the concert with someone else. This shit should've ended the moment it began. This relationship is toxic for your fianc. You will be an asshole if you (how did you doormat of a mother call it?) I thought that's the person doing the work, just wasn't sure where he'd be working; sometimes my English just says bye haha, Mechanic is a good word! As this is NOT normal male behavior. NTA, you should elope and go NC with this family of bullies. Unfortunately when you live with something for so long, it becomes your normal. Tell them you are reporting them to the police for attempted murder and get a restraining order. Keep them away from your wedding. Your wedding is about your fianc and you, it doesnt matter if your male relatives miss out if they are causing harm to the person the event is suppose to be celebrating. Starting a married life together is supposed to be a wonderful thing, it's not worth letting it get soured by people who's opinions don't even matter like yours does. NTA, defend your poor innocent fianc, and if any of them dispute the right to go your wedding, point out that since they admit slashing his tires and stealing his inhaler you would be well within your rights to press charges against them for vandalism and harassment. What kind of impression of themselves are they trying to make here? Not only uninvite them, you should cut contact completely. At same time, I'm sorry Op, if I was Tim, I might rethink about marriage to your family, your family is asshole. I'm sorry for what you and your fiance are going through OP. These aren't pranks. He absolutely should have pressed charges and taken OP's family to small claims court over this stunt. They're going to drive him away from you and be all oh shucks. Why aren't you protecting your fiance from these assholes? Yeah, I would never ever trust my kids for a single second with a grandparent who verbally harassed me, slashed my tires, and tried to steal medical equipment that kept me from suffocating to death. If someone pushes waaay too far after being told to stop many times, they need to face the consequences of their actions. Your family needs some serious help. It may be while he's getting ready for the ceremony, during family photos, the first dance, cake cutting, etc. Yep. It doesn't appear in any feeds, and anyone with a direct link to it will see a message like this one. NTA, that's not typical "men stuff", your dad, uncle, brother and cousin are bullies. Your fiance is a saint for putting up with this for so long. And they think they are adults. This thread has been locked by the moderators of r/AmItheAsshole, Comments are in random ordering and vote scores are hidden. Don't just uninvite these people from your wedding; uninvite them from your and your fianc's lives. I say they elope because id bet money they try to come no matter what and ruin her wedding, Lol alright, they can man up and get their ass beat by security who has been instructed to keep out the trash. Dad needs to know his approval would have been nice but is not required. However your an AH for letting it go on this long. Demands were never gonna do shit, actions were. ESH minus your Fianc who should gtfo to be honest. Who are they to judge masculinity? An inhaler is necessary medical equipment your fiance needs, not an accessory because he's "soft". im 90 down for no reason. What a sissy! He has asthma and they could have killed him the first time they took it. Asthma is scary as hell! And to add, men who are testing his manliness are the exact kind of men that dont have a clue what it means to be a real man. Wtf did I even just read. Vandalism of property. They aren't men. Your family members sound horrible, I'm so sorry you have to deal with them. NTA this is toxic masculinity and honestly who tf hides an inhaler from an asthmatic?! Slashing tires isnt a prank. Its destruction of private property and vandalism. Your family were bullying, harassing, and assaulting your fiance, and until they understand the severity of their actions and apologize, I wouldn't ever allow myself to be alone with them again if I were him. Cut them off, OP. NTA They slashed his car tires, made him play chess (How does that even determine manly status the hell? It's just a prank! The men in your life are toxic. To be fair he does sound like a doormat I dont think he will end the relationship bevore the wedding, maybe after a few years of a unhappy mariadge. Do not invite them back! OP needs to uninvite mom for defending the others as well. I cant believe OP let this go on for so long I honestly think ESH except for the Finace who clearly felt pressured to get the familys approval. But they were also educated, kind, accepting, loyal. Good lord. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. He's an American actually fortunate enough to have access to healthcare and is bragging that he doesn't get it, despite obviously needing it? Came here to say thismy tires are expensive afthis isnt a prank its a crime, Not to mention slashing tires is a straight up crime. This post made me so mad. They also tested his fishing and hunting skills, overwhelmed him with hypothetical scenarios to test his decision making abilities/mental strength. That their opinions matter more to you than his. I can't believe he is still there. Who thought it was a great idea for an asthmatic person to go on a 3 day trip with 4 individuals who had already slashed his tires to "see what type of man he is"? and it would be lost if theyre banned from the wedding. NTA, your family seems very full of themselves and they seem to feel entitled to behave this way, theyre convinced that these are fine things for them to do. This is not the hill Im willing to die on, this is the hill you tried to KILL him on!. The replies here are really inconsiderate. Look, it's just like those 'allergy' people. NTA depending on how severe his asthma is then no inhaler = death. He shouldn't have to be subjected to them for the rest of his life. Like just breathe bro /s, Bro you need to breathe into a tube to live? shes 16 and knows what shes doing, but i could be overreacting. They are immature, idiot morons So I 28f am getting married to the love of my life. Ive been nagging him to go to the doctor to get it checked out and he has refused for months, even though it would be free. I literally freaked out because I definately want my brothers to be at my wedding so badly and I tried talking to them but they were being stubborn, after talking to my fiance I had no choice but to politely uninvite my stepdad and sending him an email stating why. Or, go rogue - cancel the wedding and elope. Either hire security or elope. Slashing tires isnt a prank, its criminal mischief. What about terrible family. Too much. By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. Have a list and a security guard and be ready to call the police if they show up. Hiding his medication as a prank is the lowest of the low. Be a man!!!. They seem to have missed the point in their fun that their attempts to test your partner will also have shown him what kind of people they are! I agree. Just not worth the hassle for someone who won't even bother standing up for you until your life is in danger. This is toxic masculinity at it's finest. po Also if she had to beg and beg for you to go with her she may have assumed you didn't want to come and she was relieving you of a burden when she cancelled. Does your idiotic family not understand that they could have ended a human life cause of pranks ? Jesus. It's not funny, it's messed up. "NTA. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. These jokes kept escalating. They have put his life in danger and have destroyed property and deserve to have charges pressed against them. They are absolutely brilliant in other ways and some of the kindest people I know. They're not idiots; they're psychopaths. Slashing tires and deliberately hiding people's life-saving medications are not pranks - hold your ground and keep them out! He needs that to live! Do not let mum, brother and friends tell you otherwise. Theyre clearly boys, not men. Imagine if he had - oh, is it funny to face a murder charge for hiding an inhaler? And that's not even getting into how dangerous and stupid their "pranks" were. They dont like Tim. NTA. That should NEVER be something to joke about! NTA and also I think is healthy you take some space away from your familytheir idea of manliness is so backwards. Not everyone here is a native English speaker, so it's a bit unfair to expect everyone to be able to infer tone from a block of text, Yea I got it but tbf it sounds like the OPs family think this was unironically so on posts like these I do think it's more needed than not. NTA but considering the shit theyve put him through even before the inhaler prank, Im surprised it took you this long to put your foot down. These are all bullies who've been allowed to reign free. You're TA for continuing to subject your furnace to them. Slashing tires? NTA. Youre a bad girlfriend. If you don't cut these relatives out of your life, when Tim leaves you, you will end up marrying someone like them. OP is the poster child for NTA. NTA. INFO: how does your fianc feel? Dont just erase them from your wedding, yeet them from your life. Its a messy situation and it will most likely be a rocky marriage as your family set the tone for it with their nonsense trying to test your partners manliness. He deserves a medal for that. Who shows you affection and makes you happy and feel loved? Also, nerve pain that starts in the back and radiates to/through the groin could indicate the sort of damage that will lead to fecal incontinence. And now that you have stood up to them, they've gone crying to Mom. Sorry, this post was deleted by the person who originally posted it. You continued to expose your fiance to this bullshit and not call a hard stop to it. Slashing my tires- vandalism and theft.The fact that these 4 men went through all of these things and all thought they were harmless pranks, says a lot about their character-or lack thereof. In fact, Tim has every right to press charges against these guys and should do so. I'm so sorry you went through that." ~ bdm90. I have endometriosis. Your family for obvious reasons, and you for letting this go on for that long and being spineless enough to not put boundaries earlier. Honestly, Tim must really love and value your relationship to put up with all that. These arent pranks. He said that he didn't reply but later I got a call from my mom yelling at me calling me hurtful stuff saying I was acting like an ungrateful b by excluding her husband from the wedding after everything he's done for me, I told her that my brothers threatened not to come which pushed me to make this difficult dicision because if it was for me I'd have everyone there. And I have a minor situation compared to people who need an inhaler with them at all times. NTA. Stand up to your fianc. They dont realize how much theyre fucking up and its scary. So according to your family, I (a woman) am a man cause I can fix tires, cause obviously that's a manly man thing and not just a question of interests and acquired skills? NTA! Thats probably why theyre picking on him, because all this time he didnt just tell them to f*ck off. I mentioned this in another comment below but I had to get all my tires replaced last October right before I went on vacation and that cost ran over 600. I feel so bad for him and am honestly surprised hes still with you. Responding to the Redditor's decision to uninvite his mother and sister from his wedding, thousands of commenters assured the 32-year-old that he was justified in doing so, and dragged the two . Remember OP grew up with this behavior. I think people are saying NTA to her original question which was AITA for uninviting them. Presumably because she's a little lady who doesn't understand "real man" humor (ugh). This was not a prank. Plus, as a partner (soon to be wife), you need to support and protect your partner from family if they're doing things like this to them. Your fianc deserves your support and protection from your asshoke family members. OOP can fucking choke. My mother had saved child support payments for years so I could go to college. Most of us grow out of that around puberty, and those that don't absolutely deserve to feel the consequences of their poor choices because what excuse do they have? This is what I was thinking. NTA. NTA. NTA. Thats it. Look: I know its hard to discover that the way you grew up isnt actually normal or okay, but the way you grew up is not actually normal or okay. Tbf I think she didn't know until it happened .. the men side of OP's family seem very toxic and misogynistic as well.. they probably won't include a "woman" in their plans Yeah. NTA she was totally unconsiderate to you. My guess is the OP and her mother have had this done to them all their life because the dad is most likely an abuser. You don't have to tell me about how awful some doctors can be. Throughout high school I didn't live with my mom or spend much time with her, which I feel bad about now. Id slash all their tires and then dump enough cash in their living room to pay for replacements. Not to mention dangerous. This is THE hill to die on. They dont need to be all macho and emotionally stunted like your dad and family seem to be. He was abusive in every way but was a master manipulator. See how man enough they are for the legal system. Who slashed tyres as a prank? NTA. Slashing tires and hiding inhalers are not harmless goofs. # redditAITA #redditgermaphobe #entitledpeople 0:00 Intro 0:40 Story 1 Do not just uninvite them from your wedding, uninvite them from your life. I grew up in a sorta fucked up family. They're fucking nasty and they're doing it on purpose. Your former lack of imposing boundaries is concerning and has led to this life threatening situation. I literally freaked out because I definately want my brothers to be at my wedding so badly and I tried talking to them but they were being stubborn, after talking to my fiance I had no choice but to politely uninvite my stepdad and sending him an email stating why. Cousin asked if "little timmy ran to me to tattle". Or tell Tims's sons their father is "soft" and a wimp? They know when they have power and they are exploiting it as much as possible to make him miserable. They are bullying. Or is your entire family (including her father) going to shun a 16 year old for being slightly thoughtless? They've shown they aren't capable, loving, supportive people. Ask your dad if he's run to mummy to tattle? And agreed, fiancee must really love OP to put up with this for so long. I dont see how he can maintain a proper level of mental health while being involved with your toxic family members. This isn't much different from slipping someone a food you KNOW they're allergic to. And if I were Tim, I would be reconsidering marrying into your family. Send them this article. If its not too late/theres texted proof, it seems like a good time to call the police and also to file a small claims suit. AITA for uninviting my stepdad from my wedding so my brothers could come? Lastly, as you're getting married, I don't know if you're planning to have children, but there is a genetic component to asthma, so you also have to consider the ramifications of ignoring this behavior now and your children spending time with the men in your family in the future. Nothing about this is typical and they are just gonna fucking stop attempting to gaslight you about it. NTA- my husband has asthma and they could have killed him. Assholes are assholes who deserves to get cut out of your life. Last time I bought a full set of tires I spent about ~$800. Being in a good mood I went on a websearch to add some examples of that having happened. If I were Tim I'd be questioning the marriage with a hostile family like that. When you cut off toxic people, it makes room for better people in your life. You feel like youre going to die. This is 200% bullying bordering on harrassment and they need to be punished accordingly. Thats not an excuse, honestly. An inhaler is used for a life saving breathing issue. My asthma isn't terrible but I'd be fuming if someone dared to put me in the danger of not being able to breathe properly. She's from a family of AHs, and she's bordering on it herself for not doing a hard shut-down sooner. Slashing tires isn't a prank. Edited to add although YTA for letting it carry on I actually mean ESH. This is straight up hazing. Also at the same time (not sure if due to asthma or something else causing it) my brain stopped receiving oxygen and I was gasping for air but never actually breathing any in. and her Mom Is a no better. The Homo Sapiens hid all their inhalers as a prank. Having to replace all four tires is no joke. They specifically use the fact he went college as a way to look down on him, and most people who do that are the same ones who think colleges are brainwashing places that take in nice, innocent, religious, straight conservative teenagers that perfectly mimic thier parent's views and opinions, all to brainwash them into being gay atheist liberals who might even have black or gay friends or worse, gasp even transgender friends. Doesn't make him soft, The men in your family are obviously deeply insecure, if they feel the need to hide someone's medicine so they can get one over on the "college kid". A couple of the times this has happened it has been a small heart attack. People can die from asthma attacks, especially if they dont have access to their inhalers. The thing is, she still acts like she has something to make up for. How do they not realize that?! Theyve done damage to private property and have threatened the life of your fianc. This is insecure assholes being assholes because they feel intimidated by OP marrying a guy that is likely more successful. violence isnt just physical aggression against an individual.) Stay strong. Also extremely life threatening, apparently. NTA. And your mom isnt any better for enabling them. This, Im shocked they are engaged, he must really love her. NTA. Uninviting her is not the solution to your problem. Having just recovered from an asthma attack a day ago, I can attest that asthma is no joke. If you and Tim chance to have a son, dont let him anywhere near your male relatives. "What type of relationship does your dad have with your siblings? NTA. The dad is a master manipulator, and the siblings likely haven't realized they're being abused yet. Yes. NTA. For the people telling OP that shes TA for not cutting off sooner, please understand that for most people that grow up in this type of environment we become slightly apathetic to it and make excuses cause we think its NORMAL. Yeah, it can range in severity. But my point stands that this is gaslighting and the AHs are so obvious its painful. I wouldnt invite them either. this is wildly inappropriate at best, and really not funny. NTA they took his medication! If anyone treated my husband like that I'd never speak to them again. I do wonder why he said yes to taking a trip with these dangerous people. Truth is Timmy no longer feels comfortable being around them so this is saying something but he says he doesn't want to drive a wedge between me and my family. After that she got really jealous of my relationship with my. The men in her family are clearly toxic, and she seems to write it off as "boys will be boys". Bye . I have to give him props but at least he realized it was going too far. Child abuse waiting to happen. So, NTA, and you're totally right in cutting them off. No time to waste searching for it. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. They clearly dont respect you or your ability to choose a partner either. NTA - they sound truly horrible and yeah if I was your fianc I would want them at my wedding either. These aren't pranks. They kept calling him slow and soft but he has medical condition (asthma) but they think he's making 'excuses'. She let them slash his tires? I'd recommend you completely cutoff your fam members, including the enablers that are ok to turn a blind eye because it's not something that impacts them directly. I'm sorry but the men in your family have a very toxic view of masculinity. Everything that came before is bad enough but people DIE from asthma. "Let bygones be bygones" because you'll essentially be telling your fiance that your asshat family members fucked up view of entertainment is more important than him. Is he the type of man who is open and honest with you? Then, still exclusively breathing through the straw, they must race in panic upstairs/across the house/down the driveway/whatever distance back to you for help. OP if you see this have your fiance go slash each and everyone of their tires and when they inevitably freak out throw the prank back right in their face."WhAT He WaS JuSt pRaNkInG aNd TeStInG yOuR "MaNhOoD": these family members are just pure evil and have no respect for either of you. NTA go no contact over those AH. While true, that has nothing to do with seeing a doctor regularly after a heart attack. Men don't do this. I hope she doesnt cut off the family for him, but for herself. Probably should have been too. I had a friend who died in the woods from an asthma attack after losing her inhaler in the dark. OP why do you let your family treat him like that? Throughout high school I didnt live with my mom or spend as much time with her as I shouldve,which I feel bad about now. Even if they apologize, this oversized kids need to understand there are consequences to their action, even if they are jOkEs. This guy could describe all of this behavior to a third party and leave them thinking hes being stalked by a violent gang after witnessing a crime. Asthma can be lethal, especially in a wilderness situation like camping. He was my hero. The tire slashing would of been enough for me to cut my family out. Unbeknownst to me for most of my parent's married life, they had issues and finally divorced when I was 12. Totally agree. I bet the pranksters are anti-vaxxers too. REAL men's lips turn red like the blood of our poached kill!!". OP, these arent pranks. Fast forward to my graduation. They want to live like Neanderthals they can do it elsewhere, not at your wedding. NTA OP, I'd grab a tent and camp out on this new hill of yours. All of them. Recently, I bought a new car which I use everyday and let my mom and stepdad take it whenever they need. You know what you should do if you have a family full of bullies? Tires are fucking expensive as hell. It's not funny and it never will be. Wow I wonder how manly they would be if your poor partner suffered a major attack and sadly passed. anyway, its my mums birthday next week and i was going to take the family out for dinner at a nice restaurant. He needs to ends this before these monsters end up murdering him. Your fianc doesnt need to prove anything to any of them. This!!! I agree. (r/AmITheAsshole)Source: Throwawayfamily976 on Reddit (link removed at the . Let them sulk. He was not working and she had just retired from the military. If someone hid my inhaler, I would consider that attempted murder. a prank would be like. filling his car with balloons or something. They could of killed him. I wonder what they would do if OP was engaged to a big dude with anger issues. You can die from an asthma attack! ETA: please tell me they paid for the tyres. 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